I came across this on a Facebook page this weekend and it just stuck with me. So often we’re so concerned trying to figure out what someone else is doing. My husband calls it letting someone live “rent free in your head” I’m guilty of it and I know others are too. I mean Facebook was sort of created as a way for us to check in on people without them knowing but it’s not healthy. If a person isn’t a part of your life you should mind your own business. I’m really trying to practice this and to keep to myself. I have a small group of friends and family and they are what matter to me. If it’s something that’s that important and you need to know, than call the person your concerned about. Otherwise kick out the squatters, you’ll feel so much better. I promise. ♥
Jenthefoodie 
Thank you Jenn, this is good information. For the most part I’m pretty good at not allowing anyone to live ” rent free in my head”. But I have some moments, I was severely annoyed a couple of weeks ago when my sister in law, who is a pain in the ass, called me to tell me Tommy was missing, and had been for about 36 hours. So what do I do, he’s my brother, I hadn’t seen him in two years. I got in the car on one of the hottest days and drove up there to help look for him. It was stupid to me, but had to be done. I found him, after hours in the woods, in the heat. I wanted to beat him, and for a week that’s all I thought about. It have gotten out of my head now, but gees… He’s 69, does he really need to camp in the woods and tell no one where he is?!?
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Wow. He is lucky to have you. He was just camping? So crazy. And I get it, sometimes it’s hard not to dwell even when we know better.
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